Manipulate vs. Inspire
July 4th, 2011 by angiemeyerdc | No Comments | Filed in Chiropractic Coaching, Chiropractic Wellness Practice, communication, LeadershipAt Rosen Coaching, one of our main tenants that we bring to our chiropractic coaching and speaking around the world, is the concept of “Care vs. Scare” communication. Both Dr. Russ Rosen and I work hard to help chiropractors communicate and practice chiropractic in a congruent model with our philosophy. Our vision is to have chiropractors step into their rightful place as the recognized leaders of true healthcare, worldwide!
Recently, while speaking at an EPOC group in Ottawa, and day in and day out in our coaching conversations with our clients, how deep this concept is embedded in the chiropractic profession really sunk in.
With each interaction in your office, you have a choice: To inspire others to action or to try and manipulate them. This shows up initially during Visit 1 and 2, but will continue on through your daily interactions, and show up strongly again in your re-evaluations and re-reports, and especially how you handle difficult questions!
Inspiring others requires communicating the ‘why‘ behind chiropractic care and why you do it. It requires a conversation of finding out where they are at, what they think and teaching under the radar to help them see there is another way. It means empowering people, giving them truth and consequences and leading them to choose what is right for them. It doesn’t mean sugar-coating the truth, or not talking about consequences, but the intention is to inspire action and empower people.
Manipulating others uses scare tactics to coerce and strong arm people to choosing what you think is right for them. It means a harsh tone and over-dramatizing the negative, making assumptions, painting people into a corner, giving them one good choice. Yes this can work in the short term, but it’s not a good way to build strong relationships over the long run, in our opinion. The intention is to manipulate people to do what you want.
The trick is to REALLY find out what is going on with them, and how we might be able to help them. Then simply find out what they really want and show them how they can have it!
If you are up for it, I’d like to challenge you to see where in your practice and in your community you can inspire others more. Will you take me up on it?
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