Archive for February, 2009

Freak Out!

February 26th, 2009 by angiemeyerdc | No Comments | Filed in Leadership, Skills

“To panic, or not to panic, that is the question…”

How many times in your life has a challenging situation arose and you find yourself on the brink of a panic? It could be a car accident, the athletic performance of your life, your teenager got suspended from school, your dog is missing or someone in your office poses a difficult question you don’t know how to answer.  You have a choice ~ to panic or not to panic?

As a certified facilitator for Emotional Intelligence for Personal Leadership through the Institute for Health and Human Potential, as a chiropractor whose focus has always been the Nerve System and understanding neurology, and as a chiropractic coach, I can say with certainty that leaders are people who in those circumstances hold it together and don’t panic.  True leaders keep their cool.

If your Amygdala gets hijacked, you’re done.  You lose perspective, you lose 75% of your intellectual power and are in shackles to your ‘fight or flight’ response.  Good luck on saying the right thing or saving someone’s life in this state.

Leaders at all levels need to develop skills to maintain a high EQ (Emotional Intelligence Quotient).  To be able to take a step back, stop the brain hijack to stress mode, to stay present, and keep the big perspective in mind is leadership. Disallowing the ‘freak out’ will keep your performance high and results great, with little setbacks or fallout.

Want to have better communication in your office? Want to perform at a higher level?  The time is now to demonstrate your leadership.  A downturn economy is the time you must improve yourself, your office, your procedures and your leadership!

P.S. For those of you interested in knowing your EQ or Emotional Intelligence Quotient, test it here!

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Will You Be The One?

February 20th, 2009 by angiemeyerdc | 1 Comment | Filed in Leadership, Motivation

President Obama visited Canada yesterday on his first out-of-county excursion since being sworn in as leader of the free world.  Since the inauguration, I have been reflecting on Obama’s rise to leadership and the accomplishments he’s made with such a short political career and humble beginnings. The more and more I learn about the challenges he faced throughout his lifetime and the obstacles he has overcome, I am impressed by his vision, tenacity and leadership.

I am reminded that you don’t have to be born with a silver spoon in your mouth to reach success.  And that for all the naysayers and  fear-propagators who say it’s not possible, President Barack Obama represents hope and the power of realizing a vision, no matter how lofty it seems.

So the big question is, “Will you be the one”?  Will you be a leader in your community? Will you step up and shine as a beacon of light through these dark times and give hope to your world?  Will you be the one to speak your truth about how chiropractic affects people’s lives, not just that it can ease their pain?  Will you step out of your comfort zone to do what it takes to build a successful wellness practice?  Will you be the one to cause transformation in the people you care for, your family, your friends and most importantly yourself?

You are where you are, not because you deserve it.  The opportunities, the education, your position in the community to affect lives… you have created for yourself. Will you use these achievements to be mediocre, or will you rise up and be the one?

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When You Think You’ve Had Enough

February 12th, 2009 by angiemeyerdc | No Comments | Filed in Motivation

Inspired by a blog on lifestyle design that I read regularly by Tim Ferriss, I want to share this profoundly inspiring video:

Get Back Up

The truth is, you are not alone.  Every person and every chiropractor, no matter how successful, has thought to themselves at one time or another, “I’ve had enough”.

Maybe it’s the global economy tanking and your practice is going down.  Maybe it’s the Canadian media telling the country that a chiropractor ’caused’ another stroke.  Maybe it’s the medical professionals in your community who slander what you do.  Maybe it’s the person who says they’re not coming back because their insurance ran out.  Or maybe it’s something entirely different.  But we’ve all been there, at one time or another.

As a coach, I work with chiropractor’s head space and mindset on a daily basis. Oh yeah, and I work with my own too (which is much more difficult)!  It is up to us if we are going to manage the dialogue we have with ourselves, day in and day out. It is a choice to decide if we press on, or quit.  When you think you’ve had enough, do you get back up?

One of the most powerful phrases I have ever learned is from a previous coach of mine, Bart Precourt, DC. And it goes like this, “So What?  Now What”?  So what I am down in the dumps; Now what am I going to do about it?  So what I just ate a piece of cheesecake; Now what am I going to do about it?  

The power comes to release ourselves from the downward spiral of self-abuse with “So What”.  One of my life lessons is not to take myself so seriously.  This frees me from the regret and the guilt of a bad decision.  And the “Now What” empowers me to take action.  Because every choice I make either moves me toward what I want, or away from it.

So the next time you think you’ve had enough, remember Nick Vujicic and get back up.  Your community needs you to be a beacon of light now more than ever.

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